Good evening! Saturday blog! From the time Denny and I married, we promised each other we would take care of each other! Well, my feeling is, Denny did his part! He provided for his family! He certainly took care of me! Even when I did not deserve it! His love for me has been unconditional! As mine is for him! From the time he entered Otterbein, every day I knew more and more, he would never go to another facility! My mind will not be changed! I am for a fact, have been told by more than one, it is rare to see a person come and sit by their loved one all day until bedtime! I told the kids, he will not go anywhere again, except, 7832 Cedar Pt. Rd. He has been in two five star facilities and twice at the same one star! I give them all 0 zero stars 0!!!!!! He fell at every place! Had to be taken to the hospital from everyplace! Medication screwed up everywhere he went! Never in my life have I witnessed what they call skilled care! I am not trying to insult any professionals out there, but, they don’t love Denny! I do! It’s like take a number and wait your turn! Then what makes people think because they have some kind of license that makes them able to move his body any better than me! I exercise and take care of myself! I do not skip meals! Put to the test, I am stronger than most of them! Even the young ones! Taking care of my husbands needs is not work, nor do I consider him a job to be done! He is afraid, he cannot sleep, his eyes are bloodshot and tears run out the corners of his eyes! Is anyone going to wipe his eyes, much less see the tear! I’m no goddess, but, I love him always! His needs are before mine! I know how to take care of myself in between! Who will be my helper, God! Who will I call upon, God! Who will give me strength, God! I believe in God and his word will be my map through all of this! In human form, he is loved by many that would come and help and all kinds of care groups to come to the home with nurses! He has had the same group, more than once, they know him and I see them! I am done ranting! Continued prayers please! Goodnight! God bless!❤️🤗🤗❤️
Marilyn’s Heart 
You’re a beautiful person inside and out. I don’t blame you not wanting those place to care for him. Had to deal with those places with my father and believe he got worse after their care. Took Oregon hospital a week to clear my father wound on his legs from Seaman St nursing home. Horrible allow my dads room to smell and used air freshener instead of taking bins that hold his gowns and solid stuff out of room. Would come in visit with his legs leaking all over the floor. I hope god has a plan for the both of you. Love all your ambition in life and all you do for your family. Beautiful individual and awesome heart of gold. Keep staying strong and prayer for your family.
WOW Marilyn, reading this made my heart hurtful but yet strong cause i’ve couldn’t have and felt the same, for the court to forbid me to see or have contact with my mom for no given reason, the hatetred i have for the justice system is uncontrollible, I took care and took my mother everywhere not because i had to but wanted to, so much i say but i praise u and bless u on how we both do for our love one, keep going lady.. Olivia