That One Special Person

Good evening! Sunday blog! You know what I’m talking about! Boys and girls, when we start school! Oh he’s so cute, oh she’s so cute! Then, the little notes!! As you pass through school there are many, many things that bring boys and girls together! Neighbors, riding the bus, sporting events, dances, classmates! Some find the one early on! Puppy love, teenage love! Break ups, then back together! Whatever brought you together, no matter what order it came in, You just know! My mom was out with someone, but left with my dad! 9 1/2 years age difference! 58 years together before he passed! My sister went to school with her husband, 13 months age difference! 47 yrs. together! Our son and his wife, teenage sweethearts! Same age, 24 years together! Denny and I, 9 1/2 years age difference, 42 years together! I’m sure many of you have similar stories! What I’m getting at, how are things going? Do you still go out, take date time? Do you look at each other and wink, smile, blow kisses, go to ballgames, movies? Turn each other on!Do you help each other? Do you put your spouses feelings above your own? I am no expert! We did a lot over the years, I soooo appreciate the life that Denny shared with us! I read all of your posts about vacation, movies, dinners out, birthdays made special! Do you call each other at home or work! Just to say I love you! Do not put these things on hold! Do not wait until empty nest! Denny and I can tell you, the grass was not greener! What made you realize love? How long did it take? The same thing that made you fall in love, you should be doing now! Stop saying he doesn’t do it, or, she doesn’t do it! The very thing that had you, should still be there! Denny and I lost precious time not putting each other first! We lost sight of Gods plan for us! I weep many times when a song triggers a certain memory! It floods my mind! Make tonight or tomorrow the day you fall in love again, with the same person! Remember when, might not come back! Denny and I have a lot of different things going on, not the bliss I thought we deserved! Delusional! Think about it! God has a lot to say about marriage! Goodnight! God bless!❤️🤗🤗❤️