Expect The Unexpected

Good evening! Friday blog! Today became one of those unexpected days! Or, was it expected? Pneumonia is a very serious threat to people with Parkinson’s! Talk about a rollercoaster ride of emotions today! I have been pretty busy today! I still start early if there is something special that I want to do! Like a Birthday Cake this morning, for a family member! And our grandson has his 15th on Monday, another treat! You see, once upon a time, Marilyn used to use everything she could think of, to get out of doing things! That’s not good when I was already an excuse maker and a procrastinator! I’m so happy I don’t live with her anymore! I would never use my sick husband to back out of Birthday baking! For anyone, let alone family! I consider myself to be organized about things! I never say, what if that happens! I do not think about tomorrow, until it gets here! These are my choices that make me happy and will be memories for them in the years to come! Denny has been in and out of hospitals and nursing facilities since 2013! With stays increasing every year and some 5 to 6 weeks! He spent 6 weeks at Kingston 2 years ago! We spent our 41st Anniversary there! I made a large, heart tier cake, we shared it in the dining room with others! We spent Valentines there, our sons Birthday, Denny had surgery that day, I found out our Beagle had heart worm that day! It’s been a long coaster ride! I can let myself be buried in self pity! Not! I pray I can be an example! Our grandkids were still pretty young! I don’t want any of them to have the memory of, Momo stopped doing everything after Papa got sick! I love my family and I miss them on many levels! Life is all about choices, and what you live with after you make them! I think on these things a lot! Some have said, why do you bother! Because, it’s not a bother to me! I always get it done! I never am up past 8:00pm to do anything! I write after I am in bed, because I love all of you and I want to share our life so others can see, a positive life can be done in the middle of adversity! That’s my prayer! God is good, He is that good! Good night! God bless!❤️🤗🙏🏻🤗❤️